8/29/07

You don't know what you've got 'til it's gone...

I have become obsessed with breasts...and no, I have not switched teams (although I have a line up of lovely gfs should I ever decide to). The whole losing weight thing has been great for shaping other parts of my body, but I sure do miss my boobage. I'd post pics to compare here, but I'd frighten my poor brother to death and probably embarrass my friends and other family members. I know boobs aren't the be all and end all of me, but when you go from a D to bordering on an A, your self confidence sort of takes a huge blow too. I mean I was already blessed with a lack of ass then you take my boobs away, what do I have to offer a man? (totally kidding ladies) But I think part of me DOES think they were what I had to offer and attract the opposite sex and now I don't have as much. Before I really did dress to accentuate them and now I really try to cover them up. I got really offended once when a friend remarked at how lucky I was that I could wear a top without a bra but did so in an awkward way, exclaiming "I'm so jealous of you and your tiny boobs!" So I don't know why I'm looking at the cleavage of strangers...maybe I'm really not...and I don't know why I'm sharing it with you. I think I'm just wishing we could really spot reduce. Then we wouldn't have to have surgeries to remove more or add back in and could keep the good and get out the bad. and maybe we'd be happy with who we are finally. meh.

13 comments:

soap box girl said...

My pet peeve is seeing those fake beach-ball boobs that don't move. It's so ridiculous, so unnatural. I think it's chic to be long and lean--think NY fashion model. Besides, with that lovely mane of hair, and your size 3 bod. do you think it would be fair to all of the rest of us if you were a size D cup? Greedy girl! :)

Jen said...

OOOH, good post.

Well first of all, I DO admire girls who can wear a shirt and not wear a bra...I certainly don't think of them as tiny boobs!!!
(Hm, that sounds weird...I don't think of your boobs much...or at all really...um, abort)

ANYWAY, Could you imagine being a runner with huge knockers um, knocking you in the face when you ran??? I think your body is made to suit YOUR lifestyle!! I think you look FRIGGIN amazing!!! And I wouldn't want you any other way...

besides, you can't get away from it. I went down to a D (from an overflowing DD) and people always say "too bad you lost all your boobs"....um right...you can't win!!

Shirls said...

your preaching to the preacher babe! I tell you if I could have been selective well lets just say the surgery wouldn't be necessary and I'd finally have an ass. Odd how you can haul around almost 300lbs and still not have ever had an ass..sigh

even on LA Ink last night Kat VonD was contemplating purchasing some new boobs after her weight loss, I guess no one is exempt

Its a matter of self love no matter what the outside package is, sometimes it is just so hard to go there and other days we all rock at it, fact of life :0)

~Paige~ said...

i would trade my large tatas for a small bod any day of the week :(

Sara said...

I'll gladly give you some of mine - I just don't think Justin would really like that trade! Spot reduction is the answer to everyones problems it is just to bad that the Big Guy doesn't listen to the pleas of pretty much every woman out there!

Natalie said...

Love your boobies no matter what size they are. Personally, I'm anxious to get out of my H cups, (H for "Holy" crap those are big knockers) but maybe I'll miss 'em when they've shrunk - who knows?

I say if they are healthy and happy, does the size really matter? Give your girls a good hug!

And if you find a guy who has a particular breast size in mind that he prefers, tell him you have a brain size in mind you prefer and his doesn't cut it.

Angie All The Way said...

I'm starting to mourn the loss and depletion of mine too :-( I don't like them anymore and I think they look funny!

But in all honesty when I feel disappointed with the sags, wings and funny boobs I see in the mirror naked, I still wouldn't trade it all back.

Surgery is an option for anyone who so desires, you just have to decide if it's that important. You sound like a person whose got so much MORE to offer than big boobs and from what any guy has told me, boobs are boobs.

CaRoLyN said...

I'm pretty sure I would miss my boobs if they left me. I morn for your loss too!

eurydice said...

last night i gave my sister a bikini i can't fit into anymore...

because the material is too loose to hold my little shruken boobs!

:o(

although the bottom is now to big for my little bottom - so it's all good! =D

katieo said...

OH Marie. I feel your pain.

Breastfeeding 3 babies has also *NOT* helped the boob situation. ( I know they say it doesn't affect it, but I SWEAR I've got tangible evidence )

Mel said...

I enjoy my boobs too and was really scared with losing weight that I would lose them too. I am still a C/D though although they have been through two kids so are not quite where they should be. I have found some great bras though. There are times though that I wish they were smaller because there are some really cute clothes that are just not made for boobs!

Mandy said...

I hear ya except I never had big boobs - always a B, now I'm an A. Lovely.

A Heathier Me said...

I totally feel your pain. I was a full C cup before I lost weight and now I'm luck to fill a B cup :(

Oh well, the weight loss was totally worth it!

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